Stanley Kunitz: The Layers

I love hearing poetry from the voice of the poet. This one, by Stanley Kunitz is both sad and celebratory. Of it, Roger Housden writes, in Ten Poems … [Read more...]

Break-the-Cycle Parenting: In the Trenches

"I trust you to curl my hair," I said to my twelve-year old as she came at my sizable forehead with a hot electrical appliance. "And that's saying … [Read more...]

Thank You for Choosing Healing!

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Weathering Extremes

1. We are deep in one of the worst winters on record. When the winds pummel my house and the ocean flows through my basement what am I … [Read more...]

Small “t” Trauma

I wrote about flood clean-up after this blizzard. We are all safe and sound. It's just messy and there's clean up and follow up and after storm stuff … [Read more...]

What’s your ACE score?

The Mind Blowing Test No One Knows About: ACE is an informational workshop of a little known study that correlates the impact of adverse childhood … [Read more...]

Keeping Fear in the Passenger Seat

Fear I had to name over and over again. Fear I had to guide into the backseat like a new puppy, reaching back my back while she … [Read more...]

The Bread Maker

Learning Love Later in Life   1. The bread was home made and constant. For months, he brought me loaves to take or tear open. After our first kiss … [Read more...]

How Healthy Love After Childhood Abuse is Tricky but NOT Impossible 

The Bread Makers (for my loaf of T):  The bread was home made and constant. For months, he brought me loaves to take or tear open. After our first … [Read more...]

I Resolve to Remember: Part 1

The New Year is coming and I have no grand resolutions. Until I'm actually doing the things that I know bring me health, joy and rest, I'm not adding … [Read more...]