Puppy-Sunset Pause / Day 8

All the words sound like blah-blah-blah today. I have a post. It will have to wait. Silence seems more urgent. Soak in some beauty. Maybe rest and … [Read more...]

Be With Us, Like Oprah & Trying Not to be Post-Traumatically Pissed (Days 6 & 7)

Survivors OWN ACEs / 30 Days after Oprah on 60 Minutes Day 7/6, Days 5, Day 4,  Day 3, Day 2, Day 1/Intro) Aha Day 6: Survivors, parents, and … [Read more...]

Vulnerable Not Damaged: 30 Days After Oprah

Survivors OWN ACEs, 30 Days After Oprah (Day 4,  Day 3, Day 2, Day 1/Intro) Day / Aha 5: Children are Vulnerable and Not Damaged Trauma that … [Read more...]

DINE not DIE: Can We Start with Not Dying Early? (Day 4/After-Oprah ACEs)

30 Days After Oprah on 60 Minutes Series ( Day 3, Day 2, Day 1/Intro)   Day 4 / Aha We are the public in public health.  The public. … [Read more...]

Survivors OWN ACEs: Day 3 (30 Days After Oprah)

Day 3 Aha: ACE Scores Matter & How Not to Die Early (Day 2, Day 1/Intro) On 60 Minutes, Oprah reported the following: "For anyone, a high … [Read more...]

Survivors OWN ACEs After Oprah (Day 2)

30 Days of After Oprah (Series & Day 1) Day 2 / Aha 2 There’s a test for that? I had no idea that there was something called (adverse … [Read more...]

Survivors OWN ACEs: 30 Days of After Oprah (Day 1)

Day 1 It was #Time'sUp at the Oscars and #MeToo at the Golden Globes but for the rest of us non-Hollywood people it' was game day last night on  on … [Read more...]

Allegations of employee mistreatment roil renowned Brookline trauma center (www.boston.com) & commentary

Boston Globe News Story Excerpt: Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a best-selling author on trauma whose research has attracted a world-wide following, has … [Read more...]

“No Coincidence, No Story.” Lisa See Inspires

This is a guest post by my sister, Karen, who wrote about this amazing event and evening she organized. How does an author bring about hope? By … [Read more...]

Guest in Your Heart

I arrived with a bottle of wine after our fight. We'd fought about his drinking and our relationship. Again. This time was different though. I was … [Read more...]