{"id":1889,"date":"2014-07-01T20:55:42","date_gmt":"2014-07-02T00:55:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/healwritenow.com\/?page_id=1889"},"modified":"2014-09-11T17:36:48","modified_gmt":"2014-09-11T21:36:48","slug":"zabie-transcending-sexual-violence-yoga","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/healwritenow.com\/zabie-transcending-sexual-violence-yoga\/","title":{"rendered":"Zahabiyah Khorakiwala: Transcending Sexual Violence Through Yoga"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Lemonade People Project (1): Introducing Zabie<\/h1>\n

\u201cTrauma doesn\u2019t happen as a story. It happens in the body, as sensations,\u201d Zahabiyah Khorakiwala (Zabie) said.<\/h3>\n

She knows. Seven years ago, she went from studying psychology, Social Behavior and education at UC Irvine to becoming a rape survivor.<\/p>\n

Today, she’s a yoga teacher and violence prevention coordinator at the same university.<\/p>\n

She gives workshops about the realities of rape to students, professors and staff. According to the American Association of University Women (AAUW), one in five undergraduate women can expect an attempted or completed sexual assault while at school.<\/p>\n

People think of rapists as scary strangers hiding behind a bush waiting to attack a stranger when in fact that is rare. 90 percent of rapists know the victim and are an acquaintance, date, friend or lover.<\/p>\n

\u201cI still hear people talking about what a woman wears or if she\u2019s drinking,\u201d says Zabie, as though clothing choice, beverages or interactions hold survivors partially responsible for being raped.<\/h2>\n

\"scituate\u201cI try to make the world a more welcoming place to heal,\u201d Zabie said recalling the pain she felt when she worried she would forever feel unhappy and unlovable. She remembers thinking, \u201cThere are only two paths. One was a feeling that this is it. Deep depression.<\/a> The other path was a choice to be resilient and empowered.\u201d<\/p>\n

To move through her trauma, Zabie literally had to move her body.<\/p>\n

Talk therapy, which she had tried several times, didn\u2019t help enough. \u201cMost people don\u2019t process trauma cognitively. Google rape symptoms and you\u2019ll find people experience GI distress, insomnia, depression, anxiety and flashbacks,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

“Trauma symptoms are registered in the body as sensations.\u201d\u201c<\/h2>\n

With yoga, Zabie found a portable tool she could use at will. \u201cI regained a feeling of control, and groundedness.\u201d Even though, \u201chealing is lifelong,\u201d I can \u201cstabilize my body\u201d and \u201cresource myself,\u201d she said. Having a tool she could use is what made her feel less hopeless and helpless.<\/p>\n

When explaining why trauma survivors \u201ccan\u2019t just \u2018talk about it\u201d Belleruth Naparstek, therapist for three decades and author of Invisible Heroes: Survivors of Trauma and How They Heal, writes \u201c[T]he trauma isn\u2019t even stored in the parts of the brain where language can access it.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Bessel van der Kolk, head of Boston\u2019s Trauma Center at the Justice Resource Institute said, \u201cFeeling somebody understands your suffering is enormously comforting but it doesn\u2019t make your body know that you are safe. The real method is resetting your physiology.\u201d<\/p>\n

Still, despite current research on trauma, few resources besides talk therapy are available to victims of sexual assault. \u201cWe do a huge disservice by leaving the body out,\u201d Zabie said.<\/h2>\n

So many are still suffering from the impact of sexual assault. \u201cEven if you are feeling that you can\u2019t come out of that space, or there\u2019s no light at the end of the tunnel or long hours of therapy aren\u2019t helping you, there is still hope,\u201d Zabie wants people to know.\"fall<\/p>\n

In her six years of working in sexual and domestic assault prevention and intervention, she has seen nothing as powerful or effective as trauma-sensitive yoga for survivor healing.<\/p>\n

Hearing about reduced symptoms of anxiety, depression and insomnia were expected by Zabie. What shocked her though was the life choices and changes people made once they no longer felt disconnected and disembodied.<\/p>\n

Some pressed rape charges. Others were able to be intimate with partners. Many were able to better set boundaries. The pro-active feelings of safety, mindfulness and assertiveness were as dramatic as reducing post-traumatic stress (PTS) symptoms.<\/p>\n

There is reason for hope even for those with post-traumatic stress unrelenting for years despite medication or therapy.<\/h2>\n

Naperstek writes, \u201cYou can recover from post-traumatic stress. Certainly, you can significantly reduce not just manage its symptoms.<\/a> But here\u2019s the thing\u2014not with traditional treatment.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cFor a technique to work,\u201d Naparstek says, \u201cit must be taught as a skill and not as a cure for pathology. It must first and foremost find ways to re-regulate the nervous system. It must be simple enough for people to use on their own which confers a sense of mastery and control, and has to de-stigmatize and normalize the experience by explaining PTS (post-traumatic stress) as the somatic and neurophysiologic condition it is.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

For Zabie, yoga is \u201ca gem\u201d which she wants as many people as possible to know is available. To that end, she founded \u201cTranscending Sexual Violence through Yoga\u201d because she believes, \u201ctrauma sensitive yoga practice and holistic healing are the future.\u201d<\/p>\n

Zabie has days when the trauma seems to rise up through her feet and into her body. When that happens, she stops, closes her door, takes breaths and does poses. \u201cYou can\u2019t erase painful experiences,\u201d she says, \u201cBut you can turn them into something beautiful.\u201d<\/h2>\n

This piece was published in Elephant Journal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Below, please find excerpts from my interview with Zabie.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHonestly, for the longest time people feel they need to rehash every detail of trauma, emphasizing on verbalizing it, and for some it helps, for others it doesn\u2019t get them to the point that they feel better.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t think long hours of therapy is only treatment. We have to think a lot more holistically in healing (offering) unique and different ways to support people.\u201d<\/p>\n

“I believe that trauma sensitive yoga programs and holistic forms of healing are truly the future of the field. I have been involved in prevention and intervention work for the past six years and I have not seen anything more transformational than the impact that a trauma informed yoga practice has had on the lives of survivors.”<\/p>\n

Trauma & the Body<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“Best way to describe it, there are times when I am triggered, when I can feel trauma boiling through feet and I feel it has no outlet. Think of survivor, anxiety, depression, GI issues, sweaty palms. So many after effects of trauma. It\u2019s all in the body. Google symptoms of sexual assault and it\u2019s all about regulating the body. People talk about nightmares, flashbacks, tummy. In my office we\u2019ll do poses, breathe, feel better. I pick poses that might help. It blows your mind, giving tools helps support somatic symptoms.”<\/p>\n

Yoga Program Impact<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

“A lot of people share stronger self esteem, confidence, feeling balanced, grounded and taking that into life. Understanding the need for self care. The yoga has taught them 1 hr a week dedicated resource, postures, it\u2019s a priority.”<\/p>\n

“Initially when I developed the program I thought it would be internal, that was the benefit, but the community building with a survivor group is incredible. We can relate together in a healthy, moving and empowered way. Beautiful relationships, support, especially for those blamed or judged in a family where there was sexual assault. They didn\u2019t have support around trauma.”<\/p>\n

“Another surprise is the impact it has on people. We do a pre and post test and people report to police (after). It has happened numerous times. Working in cognitive therapy that doesn\u2019t always happen. Something in body happened and they felt strong. They went with each other or decided they were ready to report what had happened. They had support too.<\/p>\n

Ability to be intimate is another thing, again with a partner, or asserting boundaries. Safety, mindfulness, assertiveness aligned with what survivors struggle with. They are empowered to seek other resources. Help manage anxiety, depression, at basic level that happens and was what she expected but it was more than that. Genuine healing. It works. We can\u2019t ignore it.”<\/p>\n

Battling Yoga Stereotypes<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI ask people fears and stereotypes about yoga. They\u2019ll share wearing lulu lemon and sports bras, not a lot space, people \u00bd dressed. For survivors it can feel claustrophobic and they work about being judged. And some stereotypes about yoga being only for rich, wealthy and flexible. Work with stereotypes, first and people are relieved when I say it\u2019s different than that. Work through fears about yoga in general, also trauma survivors are not always ready to be seen so walking into a public space is a challenge\u201d just getting into the space and through the doors.<\/p>\n

Hope<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

If you are feeling you can\u2019t come out of that space, or there\u2019s no light at end of tunnel or long hours of therapy aren\u2019t helping you. There is hope. World of yoga and all other opportunities. Give it a chance. People are out there. If you are feeling there\u2019s no other side to what you\u2019ve gone through, there is. Give other modalities a chance.<\/p>\n

Zabie’s Tips for Making ANY Yoga Class Trauma Sensitive shared in this article for Elephant Journal <\/a><\/span><\/h3>\n

To Find Zabie<\/strong>: www.facebook.com\/ZabieKhorakiwalaYoga?ref=br_tf<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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