PTSD Archives - Heal Write Now for Trauma Survivors & Adults Abused as Children https://healwritenow.com Writing & Inspiration to Heal Trauma Mon, 22 Jul 2019 15:10:52 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.8.5 Parenting after ACEs: Small Changes & Huge Differences https://healwritenow.com/how-to-human-differently-small-changes-huge-differences/ https://healwritenow.com/how-to-human-differently-small-changes-huge-differences/#comments Sat, 29 Jun 2019 05:03:39 +0000 https://healwritenow.com/?p=4963 (Part 2 & Part 1) I didn’t know how well a cry could be soothed, warmed, tended. I didn’t know how satisfying it would feel to cuddle, coddle, and cradle my baby girl. She was so tiny, only 10 pounds though ten months, because of living in an orphanage without enough food or love. I […]

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When Safety Isn’t the First Song https://healwritenow.com/when-safety-isnt-the-first-song/ https://healwritenow.com/when-safety-isnt-the-first-song/#comments Sat, 29 Jun 2019 04:33:04 +0000 https://healwritenow.com/?p=4956 How does one learn great self-care well with a self that wasn't well-cared for as a baby, toddler, or kid?

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Healing Proof: The Words & Work of Rick Hanson https://healwritenow.com/healing-proof-the-words-work-of-rick-hanson/ https://healwritenow.com/healing-proof-the-words-work-of-rick-hanson/#comments Sun, 22 Jul 2018 17:34:51 +0000 http://healwritenow.com/?p=4834 I’ve been thinking and talking a good deal about Rick Hanson since my recent break-up. It’s the work I’ve done, that I’ve learned from him, that has made such a deep and profound change in my own healing. Healing is such a soft sounding word and what I feel is a new sense of being, […]

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Allegations of employee mistreatment roil renowned Brookline trauma center (www.boston.com) & commentary https://healwritenow.com/allegations-employee-mistreatment-roil-renowned-brookline-trauma-center-commentary/ https://healwritenow.com/allegations-employee-mistreatment-roil-renowned-brookline-trauma-center-commentary/#comments Fri, 09 Mar 2018 11:58:59 +0000 http://healwritenow.com/?p=4659 Boston Globe News Story Excerpt: Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a best-selling author on trauma whose research has attracted a world-wide following, has been fired from his job over allegations that he bullied and denigrated employees at his renowned Trauma Center. Van der Kolk was removed as medical director of the Brookline center in January, […]

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PTSD in Love https://healwritenow.com/ptsd-in-love-again/ https://healwritenow.com/ptsd-in-love-again/#comments Sun, 02 Jul 2017 18:33:11 +0000 http://healwritenow.com/?p=4528 I can’t get the words he said out of my skin. They point, prick and stab. The ones I said stick in and out. We are dangerous, sharp, messy and impossible to move towards.  I want to turn back to paper cuts wounds that annoy and splinter. They can be removed and soothed. But we are past […]

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